Psychosexual & Relationship Therapist
Sexual Health & Wellness Coach
Trusted Specialist in Love, Desire & Intimacy
Amaris Raiana
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Individuals
When something feels off in sex, love, or yourself and you can’t keep pretending it’s fine- this is where we stop repeating the patterns and start listening.
Listening to things your body is holding onto.
To all the things you haven’t said.
To what’s actually true underneath it all.
The work is deep, precise and it changes things.
£70/ 50 mins
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Couples
For couples who still care but feel disconnected.
The intimacy has faded.
Perhaps sex feels like pressure, or has disappeared altogether.
Maybe there's times of conflict, or distance growing between you.
This is a place to meet each other differently with honesty and clarity, to find a route back into real connection.
£90/50 min
The Journey
This work is multi-dimensional, because you are.
We hold the psychological, emotional, energetic and physical together in the room, as it shows up.
Whether you come alone or with a partner, we begin with what’s present: the disconnection, the shutdown, the confusion, the mismatch, the ache.
We go to where the desire gets distorted, boundaries collapse, or the old pattern takes over... again.
I’m direct. I name what I see. I ask the hard questions most won't because I trust what can happen when we stop circling and land on truth.
We track what’s happening in the moment- in your body, in the energy, in what’s not being said.
This is relational, attuned and deeply embodied work which I meet you in with my full presence.
About
There comes a point where insight isn’t enough.
You’ve talked things through- with friends, in therapy, maybe with past partners. You’ve journaled, analysed, reflected, tried to be better, more open, more communicative. You’ve looked inward. You’ve taken responsibility.
But something deeper still holds you back from sex that feels alive, relationships that feel safe, or a sense of self that feels steady and true.
That’s where I come in.
I work with people who are thoughtful, capable, self-aware- and still stuck. People who want to move forward, but not by performing progress or pushing harder. They want depth. Honesty. Clarity. Change that lands in the body, not just the mind. My background spans psychotherapy, psychosexual and relationship therapy, sexual health, coaching and energy work, all deeply grounded and integrated. If you’re ready for something that meets all of you, you’re in the right place
Areas of Expertise
From loss of desire, painful sex, shutdown and performance anxiety to communication breakdowns, disconnection in long-term relationships, affairs and the fear of real intimacy- you name it, I've guided people to the other side.
I support people navigating wounds, self-abandonment, shame, conflict cycles, emotional avoidance and the patterns that keep repeating no matter how much insight you have.
Some clients come wanting to reconnect with their bodies after trauma or illness.
Others want to explore sex, love, or identity in a way that feels safe, expansive and real, maybe for the first time.
Whether you’re in a relationship or not, we work with what’s here the emotional, the physical, the relational and everything in between.
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Low desire, arousal or sexual shutdown/challenges
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Feeling out of touch with your body or needs
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Compulsive sexual behaviours or porn use
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Mismatched desire or “we’re more like housemates”
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Pain, fear, or anxiety around sex or closeness
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Emotional distance or repeated conflict
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Aftermath of an affair, rupture or trust break
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Identity and orientation curiosity
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High-functioning on the outside, shut down underneath
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Book a 15 Minute Consult
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Initial Session
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Assessment
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Treatment Plan
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The Work