Psychosexual & Relationship Therapist
Sexual Health & Wellness Coach
Trusted Specialist in Love, Desire & Intimacy
Amaris Raiana
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Individuals
Sometimes the problem isn’t obvious at first. You meet someone and start questioning yourself more. You replay conversations afterwards. You notice yourself becoming smaller, more careful, less certain of what you feel.
A lot of people I work with are used to carrying the emotional weight in relationships. They explain things away and try their best to keep the peace. They give people more compassion than they give themselves. Over time, it becomes exhausting.
Our work together focuses on the patterns underneath that. The ways you learnt to relate, protect yourself, stay connected or avoid conflict. Once those patterns become clearer, you stop overriding yourself quite so quickly, trust what you feel sooner and relationships become less confusing.
£70/50 min
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Couples
Most couples don’t come to therapy because of one argument. It’s usually because they’ve been stuck in the same dynamic for a long time and neither person knows how to get out of it.
One person shuts down while the other keeps trying to reach them. Conversations turn into criticism or defensiveness. Intimacy often drops off and all the while. resentment builds in the background.
Couples work helps you slow the pattern down enough to see what’s happening underneath it. Beyond what’s being said, we explore what each person is reacting to, protecting or struggling to express.
The aim is to create a relationship that feels safer, more honest and more connected for both people.
The Journey
This work is multi-dimensional, because you are.
We hold the psychological, emotional, energetic and physical together in the room, as it shows up.
Whether you come alone or with a partner, we begin with what’s present: the disconnection, the shutdown, the confusion, the mismatch, the ache.
We go to where the desire gets distorted, boundaries collapse, or the old pattern takes over... again.
I’m direct. I name what I see. I ask the hard questions most won't because I trust what can happen when we stop circling and land on truth.
We track what’s happening in the moment- in your body, in the energy, in what’s not being said.
This is relational, attuned and deeply embodied work which I meet you in with my full presence.
About
There comes a point where insight isn’t enough.
You’ve talked things through- with friends, in therapy, maybe with past partners. You’ve journaled, analysed, reflected, tried to be better, more open, more communicative. You’ve looked inward. You’ve taken responsibility.
But something deeper still holds you back from sex that feels alive, relationships that feel safe, or a sense of self that feels steady and true.
That’s where I come in.
I work with people who are thoughtful, capable, self-aware- and still stuck. People who want to move forward, but not by performing progress or pushing harder. They want depth. Honesty. Clarity. Change that lands in the body, not just the mind. My background spans psychotherapy, psychosexual and relationship therapy, sexual health, coaching and energy work, all deeply grounded and integrated. If you’re ready for something that meets all of you, you’re in the right place
Areas of Expertise
From loss of desire, painful sex, shutdown and performance anxiety to communication breakdowns, disconnection in long-term relationships, affairs and the fear of real intimacy- you name it, I've guided people to the other side.
I support people navigating wounds, self-abandonment, shame, conflict cycles, emotional avoidance and the patterns that keep repeating no matter how much insight you have.
Some clients come wanting to reconnect with their bodies after trauma or illness.
Others want to explore sex, love, or identity in a way that feels safe, expansive and real, maybe for the first time.
Whether you’re in a relationship or not, we work with what’s here the emotional, the physical, the relational and everything in between.
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Low desire, arousal or sexual shutdown/challenges
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Feeling out of touch with your body or needs
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Compulsive sexual behaviours or porn use
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Mismatched desire or “we’re more like housemates”
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Pain, fear, or anxiety around sex or closeness
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Emotional distance or repeated conflict
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Aftermath of an affair, rupture or trust break
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Identity and orientation curiosity
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High-functioning on the outside, shut down underneath
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Book a 15 Minute Consult
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Initial Session
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Assessment
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Treatment Plan
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The Work